Book about Parenting Love and Understanding

What can you do when your greatest wish for your child is to grow up to be a happy human being? When you want your child to succeed socially? When you want your child to graduate from schools with consisting self-confidence and self-esteem? When you yourself lack self-esteem and are wondering why?
The author, who grew up in a narcissistic home, and from that have lived most of her life without self-esteem, tells you in an openhearted way about a life in this particular situation.